Both my best guy friends are heartbroken and I can’t tell them that it’s okay because it’s not. I had my fair share of sadness, we all have. We all knew it would come but we didn’t think it would be that big of a deal. Last month was emotionally and physically draining for me, I didn’t think I’d feel that sad again. It made me realize a lot of things about myself that I thought I already knew. I am a happy person, I am the optimistic friend after all. But what hit me last month was that sadness is inevitable. It feels awful to feel sad. Believe me, if only I could, I wouldn’t want to experience being in sorrow again. But you can’t stop it, all you can do is feel it.